tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post7057087682663228053..comments2023-08-02T09:00:11.009+02:00Comments on Life, the universe and Nuffing...: A word of adviceJaneFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05624529776216917022noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-36500854145655142732009-01-14T18:58:00.000+02:002009-01-14T18:58:00.000+02:00I just wanted to hold you hand and say that i feel...I just wanted to hold you hand and say that i feel for you. My ex doesn't have that condition but his vice remains and continues to affect us. When there are children the shadow will always be there - sometimes a very loud and painful shadow.<br><br>big smooch ...cos as Tertia said "no hugs today please"Robinhttp://mywindowsill.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-4044768999017321702009-01-14T19:14:00.000+02:002009-01-14T19:14:00.000+02:00Good advice. I think I don't ever want to get ...Good advice. I think I don't ever want to get married. Too many crazy people out there.jonathanhttp://jonathancarter.co.zanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-16250205737878574682009-01-15T07:45:00.000+02:002009-01-15T07:45:00.000+02:00Shame are you having drama again?? Mine doesnt hav...Shame are you having drama again?? Mine doesnt have any of those - but is back to threatening and his usual crap! Its draining!Laurahttp://www.harassedmom.co.zanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-61181255448747408062009-01-15T09:03:00.000+02:002009-01-15T09:03:00.000+02:00Venting on your blog is the best thing ever isnt i...Venting on your blog is the best thing ever isnt it??? ha ha ha ha.I LOVE IT!!!Lindyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11482006184762328232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-30963851867431153792009-01-15T10:27:00.000+02:002009-01-15T10:27:00.000+02:00@Robin: Thank you. This has been terribly hard on ...@Robin: Thank you. This has been terribly hard on everyone. The boys, me, and indeed him. BUT I REALLY want to move on now. I feel I have tried my best to be fair, patient, understanding and reasonable. But to pretty much no avail.<br><br>@Jonathan: I may be a bit cynical right now, but seriously if you DO ever get married be 100% sure, with no doubts and do it for the RIGHT reasons. And do not chose a broken person. It never works. Sadly. People have to fix themselves, you can't do it for them.<br><br>@Laura: Yup mediation time now.<br><br>@Lindy: I don't really like to do it too much, but sometimes it is the better option. I just want to put this all behind me now. Sadly when there are kids involved it does get more complicated. But I will do whatever I have to.JaneFhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01327326438149488642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546660525329091713.post-35845450511351621342009-01-16T08:01:00.000+02:002009-01-16T08:01:00.000+02:00oy, the lessons we have to learn!oy, the lessons we have to learn!angelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09423318903817661244noreply@blogger.com