Thinking & Feeling

“The world is a tragedy to those who feel, but a comedy to those who think.” Horace Walpole

Monday, 14 June 2010

Friend ... who knows all about you, and still likes you...

"The friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you." - Elbert Hubbard

I have realised I have been letting the wrong kind of people into my, or rather our, lives. They seem like friends but really they aren't. They all have their angles and conditions and expectations. They are not true freinds and they do not deserve us. I try to maintain friendships with these people but some of them sure as hell are not worth it, and it's weird how the ones who seem most worth turn out to be the least worthy and those that appeared despicable sometime turn out to have more substance and character than anyone else...

I have been much more happy in the past month than in a long time. I have had more fun, more enjoyment and more laughs and smiles than for a long while before. I think it's because I have stopped caring about other people and trying to be enough for them. I am enough for me, and I really don't give a crap about anyone else and their shit anymore. My true friends and family know me and like me and accept me as who I am, and those are the ones I care about, and value and cherish. The rest can quite frankly sod off now.

"I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes and I'm out of control and at times; hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

"It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone." - Marilyn Monroe

"I believe everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And some times good things fall apart so better things can fall together." - Marilyn Monroe

"Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius, and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous then absolutely boring." -Marilyn Monroe


  1. Few truly accept us just as we are

  2. Glad to hear you are doing well.