Thinking & Feeling

“The world is a tragedy to those who feel, but a comedy to those who think.” Horace Walpole

Wednesday, 27 August 2008


So it is official I am getting divorced on Tuesday, 2 September 2008.

I was married on 2 Jan 1998.

So that is 10 years 8 months to the day.


I have conflicting feelings about this:
- Sadness
- Relief
- Guilt
- Like a failure
- Embarrassment
- Inadequacy
- Defeat
- Exhaustion
- Hope
- Used
- Optimism
- Trepidation
- Damaged
- Fear
- Old
- Defiance
- Uncertainty
- Peace
- Surrender
- Resolve
- Courage

Sadly it had to happen, and I have to move on now, and be myself. By myself.

After all my life motto is:

"This above all else to thine own self be true"

A new start, in a new season. Spring.


  1. I can understand how you are feeling perfectly. It's the start of bigger and better things to come. I will be thinking of you.

  2. That's big news! Good luck

  3. I'm here for you Jane. I know it hasn't be easy. HUGS